Stephen just set off for Montreal for a weekend video shoot. It's about a 6 hour drive. I asked him to call home when he arrived BUT:
I did not pack for him
I did not help load the car,
I did not ask him to list what he'd packed in case he'd forgotten anything
I did not load up a bag of "just in case there is nowhere to get food" snacks
I did not remind him to put on a clean shirt and underwear every day.
I guess I finally realized that at 26 he's capable of looking after himself.
I probably shouldn't admit this BUT....I did 2 loads of laundry so he'd have lots of options to pack. I'm not likely ever going to get over thinking he needs me.